Sex feels like a chore.

But you are not broken.
You are awakening.

Taught to ignore your body,
silence your desire,
and give without receiving.

That’s not intimacy.

And this is your invitation to want more.

Stories, truth, and healing for women raised in purity culture.

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Sex feels like a chore.

But you are not broken.
You are awakening.

Taught to ignore your body,
silence your desire,
and give without receiving.

That’s not intimacy.
And this is your invitation to want more.
Stories, truth, and healing for women raised in purity culture.

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When Sex Feels Off After Marriage (and You Blame Yourself)

You keep trying to explain it. To yourself. To your partner. But the words won’t come.

You just know something’s wrong.
Sex feels disconnected. Your body doesn’t feel like yours. And the more you try to fix it, the more broken you feel.

Struggling with Low Desire Doesn’t Mean You’re Broken

This didn’t start with you.
They taught you to say yes when you meant no. To stay small. To give without asking. To ignore the voice that lived in your body.

But that story is not the truth. And it doesn’t get the final word.
You get to understand it. Slowly rewrite the story.

I write for the women who feel this too—because I’ve lived it.

What Saying Yes Feels Like

You won’t find a formula here.
Just space to feel what’s been buried and an invitation to begin again with your body, your truth, and your timing.

If you were raised in purity culture and find yourself wondering why you don’t want sex, you’re not broken.

This is what I write about because it’s what I’ve lived.
You can start with one page.

Before: I fake it and blame myself.
After: I pause. I notice. I breathe. And I don’t feel broken anymore.

Break the Silence. Reclaim Your Body. Start Healing.

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