“Can you just finish me off,” he says. Out of obligation and insecurity, you do. He rolls over and falls asleep while you lay there with silent tears. This isn’t the first time you have carried out these sentiments. You do it because you know that you were a tease, and being a tease is sexy. However, being a tease and not following through is not sexy. In fact, being a tease means you’re obligated to make sure and “finish the job.” This story may or may not be familiar to you. However, this was my story for far ...

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The conversation often starts like this: “Can I talk to you about bedroom stuff?” These conversations often surround low sex drive, which makes sense as almost half of women living in the US who are between 30 and 70 years old have low libido or have sexual dysfunction. The struggle of libido is a hot topic of conversation with many of my clients. I might even go so far as to say it’s the number one issue women ask for help with. There is a long laundry list of potential reasons for low libido. Before I lay that list ...

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