Dear Mr. Friendly,

I am blessed beyond words to tell you that my husband completely ignored your advice from a few years back. You remember us, right? Your church is too small not to notice when we arrived… And when we left. Your “counsel” is the reason we ultimately left your church. This allowed our marriage space to heal and then seek out a new church family that practices grace and forgiveness. It’s absolutely disgusting that your first reaction to our marriage story was divorce. Even worse, you attempted to convince my husband to leave me. Convince. That word alone is problematic ...

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The day it all began

God’s Goodness Through The Storms

I woke up this morning to fantastic, unexpected news. Or, in other words, God’s goodness continuing to show up in our lives. Our taxes and Covid stimulus check had arrived into our bank account. I don’t understand why now. And I don’t have to. Here’s our story these past 5 months. As I begin my tale, know that many details are still sacredly private. These few minutes you and I are about to spend together is the beginning of me learning to share all God has been doing. In July, trauma showed its face. Trauma has many different forms ...

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Vibrators carry many stigmas with them, most of which are negative. These stigmas are the result of misuse in the pornography industry and distorted views of sexuality in religious culture.

Vibrators are for the Christian Women, too

Vibrators carry many stigmas with them, most of which are negative. These stigmas are the result of misuse in the pornography industry and distorted views of sexuality in religious culture. In fact, did you know that the original vibrator was invented due to an “illness” called hysteria. Basically, women were suffering from symptoms such as stress, lack of appetite, fainting, insomnia and the list continues on and on and on. To be “cured” women went to the doctor who stimulated them with their hands until orgasm. Well, there were so many women with this issue that doctors started developing ...

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