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Three E’s You Need For Stronger Orgasms

Whether looking for stronger orgasms or just a new technique to add to your sex menu, you’re in the right spot! There is nothing worse than an orgasm that just … won’t … come … the way you want them to. (Remember: All puns intended!) One past client described her inability to orgasm like a large pot of boiling water and just before the pressure blows the lid off, everything calms back down to a low simmer. Gah! So frustrating! Lucky for you, I am sharing the three E’s to stronger orgasms. Use these ideas together or individually, with ...

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Sex Education with a Christian Sex Coach: Pilot

Sex Education is officially in my top 3 favorite tv shows which is something my conservative upbringing didn’t see coming. For the last handful of adult years, my favorite tv shows have been (#1) Grey’s Anatomy as the show I can watch on repeat and feel all of my emotions. Next up is The Walking Dead because we love the characters and deeper messages of the show. In last place was This Is Us because who doesn’t love a family show that reflects you in some way, making you sob like a baby during every episode? Sex Education is ...

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Trauma: Was this my fault

Your past trauma is your own story and nobody can take away your truth. This is mine: Disclaimer: When I was 16 something happened to me that shouldn’t have. To this day, I’m not sure what to call it. Sexual trauma? Rape? Or just a really bad experience? On one hand I want to call it rape. For some reason I resist this label, as if what happened wasn’t as big of a deal as I think it is. In other words, I feel I am not deserving to classify what happened to me as rape. Even as I ...

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How I Met My Clitoris

When did you first discover your clitoris? If you’re anything like me, you discovered it young and had no idea what it was. Today I want to share with you the fragmented story of how I came to meet my clitoris. Interestingly, my story feels fragmented because I don’t actually remember every detail. What I do remember, though, is the experience which was a bit was a bit odd if I’m being honest. I discovered my clitoris at 8 years old and experienced shame for it most of my life. Sadly, up until recently, I was ashamed at how ...

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Trauma Talks: Meet Mr. Sexy

Trauma affects us all a little bit differently. For instance, if a group of four are in a near death car accident, they will each come out with a different perspective, different triggers and a different level of trauma (The Body Keeps Score). The driver might have severe anxiety resulting in an inability to drive. The front passenger might be in therapy to work through triggers. As for the back seat passengers, one might not be affected at all, and the other may be slightly affected, yet not quite as acute as the other two passengers. I use this ...

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Masturbation is Your Best Friend

Masturbation is one of my favorite topics to educate on. There seems to be an endless amount of negative stigmas surrounding self-pleasure. In fact I am reading a book right now called The Babysitter. Inside, the author discloses her first encounter with sexual pleasure framed with misunderstood shame. Reading this glimpse into her life was so sad for me. At the same time, there is an element of her sex shame can relate to: The feeling that I had done something wrong or dirty by touching myself sexually. Messages about sexuality are sent to us as kids at a ...

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